I didn't have a single say in what my life was when I was a kid. Neither did you, unless you were some super-genius who could boss your parents around. But one day, many moons ago (ha!), I decided exactly what I wanted out of life...and have created just that.
Because our lives are created, not just given to us without our say. Want to have a say in what your life looks like—what you get to experience every day—then stick around because that's kind of my whole thing.
You don't get to choose your life. At least not for the first 18 (sometimes more, or less) years of your life. Someone else was always calling the shots, and you were never asked "hey, you, do you want this life? Do you want to follow in the footsteps of your family trauma cycle, poverty, hardships, *insert any other crappy inherited reality*?"
You haven't had a say in what you want to do, where you want to go, or who you want to be...
Until now.
I was you. Before. Before I decided my life was mine to live, to grow, to build into exactly what makes me happiest. Coming from a family of 6 kids, chaos, trauma, alcoholism, and never talking about any of that in the open, I know how hard it can be to break out.
But I did. And you can, too. Because I'm not special. I'm just a person who decided it was time for a change, and then did something about it.
Let me help you do something about it, too.
YOU FEEL CAPABLE OF SO MUCH MORE
YOU'RE TIRED OF BEING SO TIRED OF TRYING SO HARD
LIFE HAS FELT "UNFAIR"
(Not literally, that'd be creepy!) Saying I *understand you* is far more accurate—I've been where you are.
i was born in japan
i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
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i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
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i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
i can speak 2 languages
i can only speak english, but want to
be fluent in another language one day
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i was born in japan
i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
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i was born in japan
i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
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i can speak 2 languages
i've never been to Europe
(not necessarily at the same time, ha!)
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i've never been to Europe
Comfortable & cute
EVERYDAY STYLE
I don't really do "favorites" here
FAVORITE TV SHOW
Latte: real milk, real sugar
COFFEE ORDER
Spring in Texas
Season of choice
Burgers, fried cheese curds
FAVORITE FOOD
Writing, Reading, Outdoors
HOBBIES
Dedicated
Current Mood
Plant-green
Favorite color
Oh you wanna get personal here? Okay!
By day, I'm a digital marketing content creating wizard (because my skillz are like magic, okay?) teaching people the art of writing and self-publishing books, and by other half of the day, I'm an author-in-training, currently crafting my debut nonfiction all about the stuff you see me talk about here.
And by night...well. By night I'm a handstanding, dog & cat momming, homemade meal cooking, various arts and crafting, greenbelt hiking, voraciously traveling lady who loves nothing more than a freshly rolled joint, a juicy burger, and cuddling up with my man to end the day.
Okay, so maybe my life doesn't quite look like yours...maybe not in the day-to-day, but...
My life is probably a lot more like yours than you think...
but bELLA... what about you?
My life used to be filled with working a job I hated to barely make ends meet, dodging credit card companies calls about another bill I couldn't pay, and even avoiding friends and family because I was too upset, depressed, anxious—you name it.
Not anymore. There are still struggles with some things, but I've "cracked the code" when it comes to getting out of my own way and creating the life only I want. Do you want to learn how?
When it comes to the desire to create your own path in life?
Yeah...I'm with you there.
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